Bidetonism

Bidetonism is a unique term that you might not have heard before. It's a word that describes using the water spray from a bidet or a showerhead for masturbation. This is more common among women, but a broad range of people may utilise this form of self-pleasure.

A bidet is like a toilet bowl that sprays water, helping people clean their genitals after using the toilet. Some people have discovered that this water stream can do more than just clean; it can also give pleasure.

As bathrooms have changed over the years, bidets have become less common. But the idea of using water for pleasure hasn't disappeared. It has just shifted to a different place: the shower.

While many people enjoy water-based pleasure, for some, it's more than just enjoyment. There are some who need the stimulation from water to have an orgasm. Some people may be attracted to the water itself, which is seen in albutophilia or ablutolagnia. For others, the water provides intense stimulation that they can't get in other ways.

In short, bidetonism is a unique aspect of human sexuality that involves using water spray for sexual pleasure. This can remind us that sexuality is diverse and can involve all sorts of different experiences.

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