Family & Domestic Violence
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Definition of family & domestic violence
At Progressive Therapeutic Collective, we understand the profound impact that family and domestic violence can have on individuals and communities.
Our definition of family and domestic violence encompasses a range of behaviors that one person uses to gain or maintain control over another. This includes not only physical violence but also sexual, emotional, spiritual and economic abuse.
Family and domestic violence may manifest through actions intended to intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, or coerce. It also includes efforts to threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.
We recognize that these behaviors can occur in any relationship and affect individuals regardless of gender, sexuality, or cultural background.
Our approach is informed by the latest research in psychology, social work, and criminology, ensuring that we address the full spectrum of abuse and provide effective support for prevention and healing.
News & articles
Australia has a number of research bodies that are actively engaged in exploring the complexities and nuances of family and domestic violence:
ANRWOS
https://www.anrows.org.au/
Australian Institute of Criminology
https://www.aic.gov.au/subject/family-and-domestic-violence
Australian Institute of Health and Welfare
https://www.aihw.gov.au/family-domestic-and-sexual-violence/resources/fdsv-summary
Australian Institute of Family Studies
https://aifs.gov.au/research/domestic-and-family-violence
Our Watch
https://www.ourwatch.org.au/
1800Respect
https://www.1800respect.org.au/violence-and-abuse/domestic-and-family-violence
FAQs
What constitutes FDV?
Family and domestic violence involves a pattern of behavior by one person in a relationship to control or dominate another. This can manifest through physical assaults, sexual abuse, emotional manipulation, economic deprivation, and threats. The aim is often to instill fear, and it affects individuals regardless of gender, age, or background.
How can I better protect myself?
Protection from family and domestic violence starts with recognising the signs and seeking help. This includes reaching out to trusted individuals or organisations, considering legal measures like restraining orders, and accessing counselling services. It’s crucial to develop a safety plan that addresses your specific circumstances.
Can FDV occur outside of heterosexual relationships?
Yes, family and domestic violence can occur in any relationship configuration, including non-traditional and non-binary relationships. It is not confined to heterosexual or cisgender partnerships; anyone can be a victim or perpetrator of violence, regardless of the relationship's nature. However, it is critical to understand that FDV overwhelmingly is a gendered crime perpetrated against women by men.
Is FDV a criminal offense?
In many jurisdictions, acts of family and domestic violence are criminal offences.
These can include physical abuse, sexual assault, and threats of violence.
Legal definitions vary, but the essence is to provide protection to victims and accountability for perpetrators.
Signs that you may be experiencing FDV
Signs of family and domestic violence include frequent fear of a partner, physical harm, forced isolation from family and friends, financial control by a partner, and experiencing threats against your safety or wellbeing. Emotional manipulation and feeling powerless in your relationship are also key indicators.
What should I do if I think I am being stalked?
If you suspect you are a victim of family and domestic violence, try to seek specialised support. Document instances of abuse, seek support from professional organisations, and contact the authorities if necessary. It’s important to consult with professionals who can provide guidance and support tailored to your situation.
Queer family and domestic violence
Family and Domestic Violence (FDV) within queer communities encompasses a range of harmful behaviors that mirror those found in heterosexual relationships, but also includes unique challenges and dynamics. In queer relationships, FDV can manifest through physical, emotional, sexual, and psychological abuse, as well as through financial control and social isolation.
Additionally, perpetrators may exploit societal prejudices against queer identities, threatening to 'out' a partner's sexual orientation or gender identity as a form of control or to restrict their access to support services.
This abuse is further complicated by the fear many victims have of encountering discrimination or misunderstanding from law enforcement or support services, which can discourage them from seeking help.
The need for specialised support services for queer individuals experiencing FDV is critical. These services must not only acknowledge the traditional markers of abuse but also understand and address the complex layers of oppression that queer individuals may face.
Training for service providers in cultural competency, along with the development of targeted outreach programs, can help ensure that all individuals feel safe and supported.
Enhancing visibility and accessibility of queer-affirming support resources plays a crucial role in empowering survivors/victims to step forward and seek the help they need without fear of judgment or further victimisation.